If these good folk really converted to heterosexuality, then we should hug them and accept them with open arms. If they didn't really change and will one day revert back to homosexuality, then we should hug them and accept them with open arms whenever they come back to us hurting and confused and maybe a little bit angry.
Please see the following link for further information:http://www.baptistpress.com/BPnews.asp?ID=26429
For an Adventist approach to living as gay Adventists, or gay Christians for that matter, please see the following links:
http://www.glow.cc/ (For friends and family support also)